Obviously, you know how to make your partner feel good in the bedroom. But if you’re trying to mix things up a deliver a surprise to your partner, did you know there’s a lot you can do without having to go full-on Fifty Shades? The good news is, you have what you need already. It’s…your
Obviously, you know how to make your partner feel good in the bedroom. But if you’re trying to mix things up a deliver a surprise to your partner, did you know there’s a lot you can do without having to go full-on Fifty Shades? The good news is, you have what you need already.
It’s…your mouth. Your mouth can deliver an incredible range of sensations. Great Kissers Make Great Lovers. Apply a naughty nibble, a barely-there brush of the, lips or a tantalizing tongue wiggle to the right area of his body and he’ll hit the ceiling, thinking, “Wow, how’d she do that?”
Basically, it’s optimal foreplay. Try out these sexy mouth moves to give your guy an insane time in the bedroom. (And if he’s worth his salt, he’ll use his mouth on you, too.)
- Pay Attention to His Ears
…But no need to go crazy. The ear can pick up subtle sensations — and less is more. Here’s what to do: Place your lips an inch away from his ear and release a slow sigh. Then, hen take his earlobe between your lips and gently tug. This will pull at, and indirectly stimulate, the nerve endings inside the ear. These nerves are almost never stimulated, so you’ll really blow his mind when you do this. So, yes: ears can be an erogenous zone!
- Kiss the Roof of His Mouth
So you figure you’ve explored every inch of his mouth with yours? Truth is, the one area that’s often ignored is the roof of his mouth, which is one of the most ticklish parts of the body. So the next time you’re lip-to-lip, flick your tongue once or twice in an arc along this area.
- Tease Him
Gently graze your lips (keeping them as dry as possible) across his forehead, looping slowly over to his temple and then down to his mouth. This dry brushing, will have a completely different feel from the usual wet kiss. That’s because the face is covered with nearly invisible fuzz called vellum hairs. A slight, subtle touch will activate these hairs, inducing sublime shivers.
- Notice His Neck
Few kisses establish an I-want-you-now connection like ones on the neck. To take the passion level up a notch, gently pull his head back and to the side, which will expose an extra-sensitive tendon running from the ear to the shoulder. Starting at the base of his ear, work your way down the ridge, randomly alternating between small nibbles and gentle kisses so he won’t know what’s coming next.
- Try a New Sensitive Spot
The underside of your tongue will feel really good on his most sensitive spots – namely his nipples, an often ignored erogenous zone on men. Its silky texture will feel so sexy on his most sensitive spots – namely his nipples, an often ignored erogenous zone on men. “Although many men are embarrassed to say it – because it seems like something only women should like – they secretly crave to have you pay attention to this area. So flick the bottom part of your tongue from side to side across these sweet spots. Then, as he gets into it, throw his senses for a loop by switching to the rougher, upper side of your tongue, alternating back and forth. Nerves tend to go numb when they receive the same type of stimulation for too long, But when you switch from one type of texture to another, you’ll keep his senses on maximum alert – which will keep him begging for more.
- Kiss His Stomach
Between your man’s navel and his nether region lies a strip of hair known as the “treasure trail,” so named because of its sensitivity (not to mention the fact that it leads right where he’s dying for you to go). Want to show him just how prize-worthy this trail really is? Starting right below his navel, take some strands of hair between your lips and pull – just hard enough that he can feel it, but gently enough that he’s not jumping out of his skin. The pinpricks of slight pain you’ll create will send jolts of electricity throughout his lower abdominal region, and even register below the belt. Light hair pulling indirectly activates nerves deep beneath the skin’s surface, which is something straight skin-to-skin contact can’t do. Plus, the downward direction you’re heading in will make your man’s imagination run wild with hot ‘n’ heavy possibilities.
- Give a Hands-Free Massage
Straddle your husband as he lies on his stomach, and then press your mouth firmly into the nape of his neck. With your tongue flexed so it’s pointy, probe the grooves on each side of his vertebrae, slowly working your way down to his tailbone. Essentially you’re giving him a shiatsu massage using your tongue instead of your fingers. If massages usually lull him to sleep, don’t be surprised if this one has quite the opposite effect. When you use your lips instead of your hands, your massage instantly goes from relaxing to racy.
- Suck on the Bottom of His Lips
Take just his bottom lip between yours and suck on it gently, which will bring more blood to the surface of his skin, making this area even more sensitive. To get him in on the act, have him suck on your top lip while you’re working on his bottom one; then switch. A lot of guys know only two kisses: the lip kiss and the French kiss. This is something completely different, and since you can switch roles, it never gets monotonous.
- Tickle His Torso
Even though they won’t readily admit it, there are lots of places men would love if you lavished attention on. Try flicking your tongue across known erogenous zones — like the underarm — plus not-so-expected locations, like his rib cage.
- Start Talking
It doesn’t get any easier than this. While sighs and moans are sexy in their own right, whispering phrases, demands, or even just their name is such a turn-on. Bonus: Getting vocal about what you want him to do to you guarantees you’ll both enjoy each other even more.
- Experiment With Other Parts of His Body
Did you know that there are even more sexy places you can touch your partner? And if all those places you touch him feel good, think about how much better he’ll feel when your mouth is on it. Just some places to consider: his elbows, his toes, his clavicle … you get the idea. Every guy is different and will have different specific turn-ons, so it’s worth trying new spots.
- Ask What He’d Like – And Tell Him What You Want
Yes, questions can be sexy — but the answers can be even better. Ask him if there’s something he’d like for you to try, be it now or in the future. And make sure you tell him what you want to try — he’ll be more than happy to oblige.